The Role of Free Will and Choice

Broom It Is Not Your House

 

Realize you are not responsible for other people’s lives and how they choose to live. If it doesn’t belong to you, leave it where it is…. It’s not your house so stop cleaning it.

 

Destiny determines who enters your life but you decide who stays. The truth hurts only once but a lie every time you remember it.

 

If someone doesn’t look for you, doesn’t miss you and doesn’t care about you, do you really want to be considered as an option??? Decide this minute to never again beg anyone for the love, respect and attention you should have been showing yourself in the first place. Be brave enough to say goodbye…

 

Written with love.
#respect #love #friendship

 

Joy M. Mills
Copyright © 2015

Food for Thought

Peace Happiness

Here is what I know for sure:

 

Those of you that know others are learned. Those of you that know yourself are wise.

 

Happiness is much like a butterfly. If you pursue it, it will always be just beyond your grasp. If you sit down quietly, it may just land on your shoulder. It is the same with peace and a positive attitude.

 

The next time you are in a hurry and drop something, instead of getting mad about it, you might say, “Thank God for giving me the strength to be able to pick this up.”

 

Written with love.
#happiness #peace

 

Joy M. Mills
Copyright © 2015

 

An Open Letter

Chaff and Kneed Grain

“Pour out all of the contents of one’s heart,
chaff and grain together knowing the
gentleness of hands will take and sift it,
keep what is worth keeping and with a
breath of kindness, blow the rest away…”

 

Hi, it’s me again.

It only takes one cloud to block the light of the sun… In this time of uncertainties, technology brings convenience but ever-escalating expectations of productivity and 24/7 availability – tension…

What I have realized is we need to take a step back. Everyone can’t be in the front row. Life is a theatre so invite your audience carefully – be a better friend. Start with yourself. There may be a wonderful story in every soul you come across…

A friend is one to whom one may pour out all of the contents of one’s heart, chaff and grain together knowing the gentleness of hands will take and sift it, keep what is worth keeping and with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away.

In the end, happiness is not absent of problems but simply the ability to deal with them. Look at what you have and not what you have lost or believe you have lost. Sometimes we have to make hard choices to be happy. It is a trade off.

Don’t let negativity and drama get the best of you. People who enjoy laughter gain strength and understand to tune out negativity and try to make everything more positive. Be wise enough to follow in their footsteps; walk away from the nonsense…  May we all find a sense of peace and wellbeing in the days to come.

Keep the circle positive, peaceful and loving. ©

 

Written with love.
#happiness #kindness #love

 

Joy M. Mills
Copyright © 2015

An Open Letter

FAMILIES ARE TIED TOGETHER-HEART-STRINGS

Hi, it’s me again.

It saddens me we are living in an ever-increasing disconnected world. We are all looking for something… and some days peace can’t find you.

Have you ever dealt with a family member whose attitude is my way or the highway? Some of us may feel inclined to revert back to our childhood when something doesn’t work out the way we hoped. You might start to act out and rebel…

What we have to remember is everybody else isn’t always holding all of the cards – we can’t always see the issue as black or white – there are shades of gray. If it were that simple, problems in your life would either be totally right or totally wrong…

Remember happiness is fleeting. It is a sunshiny day then the clouds come in. The day becomes dark and there are heavy winds. Every feeling and all of the changes we go through in our lives become precious when we realize it is necessary to create contrasting beauty.

Having knowledge and possessing wisdom are two different things. Knowledge knows what to do. Wisdom is being able to do it. When it comes to family our struggle is to put only one practice into play.

People around you should be a constant source of wisdom, comfort, guidance and inspiration. These are positive qualities. We have to figure out how we can become a beacon of hope for ourselves and bring our families, by way of birth or the ones we picked, to come along on our journey.

If people are not supporting your journey and you feel drained then it is time for introspection. A little soul searching can go a long way.

It may seem intimidating. It may make you feel as if you are all alone. God gave you a gift of 84,600 seconds today. What are you using them for?

There is nothing wrong with being humble but that doesn’t always work in your favor. You don’t have to do anything epic – a simple act of compassion or joy towards yourself or others could make you feel better.

 

Keep the circle positive, peaceful and loving. ©
#heartstrings #family #inspirationandguidance

 

Joy M. Mills
Copyright © 2015