An Open Letter

Hi, it’s me again. Happy 2019. May this year be better than the last.  Deciding to choose peace regardless of the circumstance is a decision that will create happiness. If you go looking for joy as the goal; you will never find it because you have no control over other people. You have control over […]

An Open Letter

Hi, it’s me again. Spoiler alert, there are skeletons in my family closet. The kind that haunts you late at night where you cannot sleep. Emotionally I have had walls up for as long as I can remember. People have always told me, either you know me well, or you do not know me at […]

Food for Thought

The last thing I want is to be on my death bed and realize there is zero evidence I ever existed. How to handle potentially volatile situations and toxic people who try to re-enter your life? Identify the behavior. When you do, be as unbiased as you can. Think back. You will have concrete evidence […]

An Open Letter

Hi, it’s me again.   To go forward, you have to know where you have been. We all need our own narrative. Maybe you feel misled. Sometimes your story is filled with broken pieces, terrible choices and ugly truths. I would like to be a fearless soul and stop limiting beliefs I project on myself. […]

An Open Letter

Hi, it’s me again.   Just like that, the days have turned into weeks, months and the anniversary of year two is rolling around. Below is the Epilogue from my newest book, “I Wish Death Would Take a Vacation – My Story.”     Epilogue   You cannot change the past, but you can take […]

An Open Letter

Hi, it’s me again.   With eyes full of clarity, you are capable of changing the relationships in your life by adjusting your point of view.   When you are not a priority, it stings. Unfortunately, timing is a harsh mistress. Do not assume people will respond to things as you will. You will set […]

An Open Letter

Where Midnight Runs By Joy M. Mills   Beyond the stars – Where Midnight Runs… Our life here done Sunshine begins! How can we grieve? Why is it so? We are human Everyone must go…   The sad part is No one really knows. Some of us young With so much life and potential it […]

An Open Letter

Hi, it’s me again.   Stay away from negative people. They have a problem for every solution. Think for yourself. Trust your intuition. Another’s mind is not walking your journey, you are.   In any relationship, do boundaries get set? When you hurt someone, do you pretend to suffer a memory lapse suddenly or are […]

An Open Letter

Hi, it’s me again.   I have been thinking about all of the emotional stressors such as relationship issues. There is no peaceful way out of any mess. Turn your mess into your message.   When we feel responsible for those around us and take on the responsibility, we put our life on hold. These […]