Be willing, not perfect. You have to decide how you will deal with a crazy situation before you get into it because when you are dealing with an emergency or making a decision on the fly, your immediate needs and fears typically cause you to make choices you would not have made if you were thinking clearly.
If you knew what you wanted, what is the compulsion for asking for advice if you honestly have confidence in yourself? What we hope is the vast majority of guidance you will receive comes from a place of love. Ultimately, you have to make your own choice for what is best for you. Do not let people who do not matter too much, matter too much.
Be okay with taking responsibility regardless of the outcome. Look at every situation that comes up in your life as a chance to get to know yourself better. We cannot own our choices by thinking. We have to practice with action.
Friends and family force their wishes for your life on you because they are afraid to know their truth. That is not your responsibility. That is their issue, and they have to deal with it, not you. When I began realizing the difference from owning other’s problems and giving support, I started creating my own positive space; this has a lot to do with boundaries. Then I could say I choose to stand with you.
In today’s world, it is becoming increasingly more difficult to avoid, suppress and force ourselves into fake states of positivity. Clearly, our negative emotions are bubbling to the surface. It is no wonder so many of us get stuck in apathy, pessimism and distractions. Eventually, everything connects with the life you were intended to live.
Remember to keep the circle positive, peaceful and loving. ©
Written with love.
Joy M. Mills (IP)
Copyright © 2019
MJM ®
*This article is not intended to provide and does not constitute medical, legal or other professional advice. This article was written to support, not replace medical or psychiatric treatment. Please seek professional care if you feel you have a condition.