Hi, it’s me again. Most people intuitively know when it is time to cut ties. Sadly, we may have carried this knowledge for a long time before we are ever ready to make the jump. In just a few words, family defines us. Families can be the ones that drive you nuts. Is there a […]

Hi, it’s me again. Have you ever felt trapped in God’s little acre, east of the rock and west of the hard place? There is no requirement to attend every argument you have received an invitation to including the ones with yourself. There are going to be times in your life when you feel you […]

Hi, it’s me again. People make a dozen excuses for not engaging in the outside world or with the people around them. I am too old. I am too young. I am too busy. I can’t afford it. Those things don’t happen to people like me. There are so many more examples I could give […]

Hi, it’s me again. When we are upset, can we choose to make wise decisions? Don’t rely on feelings or emotions when the going gets tough. Our feelings don’t carry us to the right decisions; rather, right decisions carry us to the right emotions and positive rewards. Decide to choose peace. Here is what I […]

Hi, it’s me again.   As these last days and hours of 2017 wind down, I was thinking about the hard truths. Is there order from chaos?   Your heart gets broken. No one is rallying around you with the same enthusiasm as with the pain and criticism they brought. Then the day comes when […]

Hi, it’s me again.   I was thinking about the past and present. Honoring past relationships has proven to have a significant restorative power. You don’t think about the task of mourning relationships until you have succumbed to the dark hole of grief.   There is a first of everything even a first death anniversary. […]