The Role of Free Will and Choice

There is a difference between giving up and knowing you have had enough.


If you are not one of those beautiful people in the world, then to some people you mean nothing. You seek people who express themselves by wearing darker clothes, too much makeup or piercings we do not understand. We judge them. Sometimes you may get a bit envious because there are others that are wearing trendy, in-style clothes and seem as if they have it all together.


We were all created differently. You have to like yourself first before anyone else can love you. Relating to, “Beauty is only skin deep” means that people look at the outside and are not aware of what is going on in the inside. You see someone who is outwardly beautiful and desirable, but when you get to know them, you find they are shallow, mean and cruel.


Everything is based on assumption, and people want to show you the good things about themselves that they are willing to go so far to hide the bad or the ugly they do not want to publicize. The choices we make, the people we are when no one is watching determines our beauty.


How do we deal with the total allurement of the flesh and how it gets confused with subconscious matters?  Especially in regards to the most elusive part of the body, the soul. Here is what is disconcerting, we all seem to be attracted to material things and beautiful people; but when those things are gone, what then? You possess a delicate flower at the height of its bloom, one day it is going to lose its petals, you run after ephemera, things that are enjoyed for a short time, at your own peril. Usually, a person who is enamored with him or herself will become mean and spiteful if things do not go their way. That is their character showing through in their words and actions.


I am an old soul. I have genuine kindness, and I want to attract the same. If you are not deep, do not swim in my pool. If you have a pretty face and do not have a pretty mind, pretty heart and a pretty soul, do not waste your time.


Not one drop of your self-worth should depend on someone else accepting you. Beauty should be from the inside out.


Remember to keep the circle positive, peaceful and loving. ©


Written with love.


Joy M. Mills (IP)
Copyright © 2019


*This article is not intended to provide and does not constitute medical, legal or other professional advice. This article was written to support, not replace medical or psychiatric treatment. Please seek professional care if you feel you have a condition.




Disclaimer: This article is not intended to address those with clinical depression or other mental illnesses.