Thunder and Rain
Here is what I was thinking:
Whether or not you love someone is not a mystery to unveil at the end of the day. You either do or you don’t. You know the answer. Overthinking it when you don’t want to accept the answer is when you enter the gray area. It doesn’t begin to rain. It is a full on thunderstorm!
It hurts like hell when you have to extricate yourself from a relationship that doesn’t feed your soul; even more so when they have extricated themselves from you and you just don’t understand. When you are in so much pain, nothing makes sense and peace cannot be found… You will do anything to make the pain stop, even compromise your values and give up your dignity. Don’t do it!!
Trust me when I say that a love bred out of convenience blossoms from the need to sleep beside someone, a love that caters to our need for attention rather than passion, is a love that will not inspire you at 6 a.m. when you roll over and embrace it…
Dwelling on the choice won’t change it. Figuring out why you made those decisions won’t either. What will is using your time and energy to figure out whether or not it is time to take the next step in your life or immerse yourself in a messy beautifully imperfect conundrum that will be the rest of your life. You have encountered a soul mate and you have my condolences…
A soul partner is what we should all be striving for – a kind of nirvana. They will fill you up completely – they will think you – a miracle – a revelation – and will count themselves as the lucky one. Don’t question it or yourself. This is exactly the kind of love you deserve – a quiet peace when there are thunderstorms everywhere.
Keep the circle positive, peaceful and loving. ©
Written with love.
Joy M. Mills ©